So why do we do that? Treat our managers as 'our fathers and mothers' (see Choon Seng's note below)! What is happening around us that keep us there? What...
What kinds of questions open for you? If you have tried doing it, what did you notice? Is it what you had expected? Share your questions and thoughts here. I...
Treat our managers as 'our father and mother'? Treat ourselves if we are managers ourselves?What does that mean?What is keeping us from getting there? Best...
I have to agree that good relationship is important in any organisation. It boosts staff morale and encourage espirit de corp amongst staff. Good...
Rafidah SUPARMAN
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Sep 5, 2006 7:18 am
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Thanks guys, these are great! Absolutely! Just checking-in. Is not maintaining a parent-child 'structure' at the workplace, a way of maintaining the 'good...
Dear all, We are happy to bring you here the September LOPN NewsFlash: http://www.lopn.net/NewsFlash.html There are some amazing conferences that are coming in...
Treat our managers as 'our father and mother'? Treat ourselves if we are managers ourselves? There's an assumption here that we have a good relationship with...
Hi Sheila why should it be like a parent-child relationship? I agree with its ideals but in reality, not all such relationships are that good. are we looking ...
Hi David, You've echoed my thoughts and sentiment on the topic so perfectly articulated! In particular, on the aspect of 'respect and trust' and having good...
Some of you know that I have penchant for using newsarticles as practice fields for the tools we learn. I like to do that as it allows us to look at a subject...
Hi, In working environment it will be an ideal situation but first we will have to understand the parent-child relationship. It is a condition that start from...
Sukhmindar SINGH
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Sep 6, 2006 3:49 am
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Hi everyone When the idea of treating our managers as fathers and mothers came about, the context was not about good or bad relationships with our bosses,...
You are quiet? Was there anything about the observation here that made you feel uncomfortable (that is my assumption) or had it opened up queries you feel...
I think the fundamental question is whether we have allowed our own thinking and beliefs to be influenced by another person. I don't see a difference between...
Greetings to you all! I have been following this string of conversation for a while now. Raising consciousness, being present and mindful, being open to...
Hi Sheila well I appreciate the fact it is never easy to find right illustration that would really reflect what we want to convey. I admire your courage for ...
Henry said, when you talking about raising consciousness, are you referring to the gap between our cognitive values and our operative values? are you alluding...
These are amazing! Really liked your catch-22 = 'who do you blame? the student or the teacher? And David loved your question: "are we aware that we disagree...
Tell us what you did? What did you notice? What excited (or frustrated) you? Maybe the question(s) you raise are also some things someone here is thinking...
- the tight security measures, - the tantalizing food arrangements by the different races, - the atractive offers of the island for the delegates, - the goody...
... confident I have the physical strength to 'fight back' or the respect people would accord to what I say or do? And if I find I don't have the sheer...
What is causing us to nurture the few who eventually leads and yet when we look within organizations we do not find many instances where staff finds it easy to...
When Henry mentioned " you talking about raising consciousness, are you referring to the gap between our cognitive values and our operative values", I think...
good at being in and understanding another person while in conversations? When I see how much we become afraid to let someone speak or fear that the...
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The past weeks I had been noticing one experience after another happening for me, but interestingly, each of them pointed to the same source, our indigenous...
Here are my thoughts on this . "As much as wars are about aggression, it is fueled by a deep-seated sense of fear and insecurity. If that does not go away, the...
Thank you for this Senthiyl and I really liked the way you reflected the two ways of "being". It is very clear and really helpful. You are right, the strategy...
Dear all, greetings from Virginia 1 My wife, myself and 3 children have settled well (my work is in DC). Thanks to Sheila for being a dear friend, and for...